Marriage is one place where S3@.Xx:’ is not a sin, but your marriage bed is where you can fully embrace S3@.Xx:’ual intimacy.
What men really want in bed? The first thing that comes to mind is S3@.Xx:’; yes, we know men love S3@.Xx:’ and want it all the time. But when it comes to what they want in bed from their women it goes beyond just having S3@.Xx:’.
For men, what they see is almost as good as, what they want and get. As a woman, you need to know what your man really want from you in bed.
Some women don’t know how to have amazing S3@.Xx:’ but asking your
man to help you understand what arouses him could be helpful. Various
S3@.Xx:’ techniques are important but they don’t mean much without a
deep understanding of what makes your man turned on.
There are different strokes for different men, some have a particular preference while others don’t. Whichever way, the onus is on you as a woman to discover his deepest fantasies and explore it with him.
A S3@.Xx:’ Therapist Dr. Taiwo Fadeyi, speaks with NAIJ.com’s Esther Odili on the basic things men really want from their women in bed.
Check them out:
S3@.Xx:’
What men really want from women in bed is S3@.Xx:’; not just S3@.Xx:’, they want their women to be capable of initiating S3@.Xx:’ sometimes. Apart from initiating S3@.Xx:’, there should be some kind of participatory S3@.Xx:’. They just don’t want their woman to lie down like a piece of log of wood. In other words, both husband and wife should do this.
Cuddling
When you are in bed, its not every time that you want to have S3@.Xx:’. So the man should not be at one end of the bed and the woman at the other end of the bed. In fact that is why I advocate that couples should not use the big sized bed, because when couples are using big sized beds, it does not allow for smooth relationship, because even when they fight, they don’t touch each other and this is not good for the bedroom.
Look attractive
The man would also want the woman to look even in bed. Not when you are going to bed, you put on your worst night gown or your hair-do is bad, or having all sorts of facial cream all over your body because when you have all that, you are sending a message; ‘don’t touch’ and this means you are giving orders.
Also when a woman is not attractive in bed, the man loses interest. Keep some clothes on. S3@.Xx:’y lingerie can be as arousing or more so being nude. With it you will be able to pull a move so wild he wont be able to stop talking about it the next day.
Have a particular technique that is really hot and different. You can try out his shirt alone without anything on, this
experience will ring a bell always in his mind. So that means you should always make sure that when you are going to bed, you just need to look attractive as much as possible.
Communication
Communication is also something that is important. When you talk of communication in bed, it means there should be light talk. The bedroom should not be an arena to start fighting or nagging, or talking about finance and school fees. All this add pressure to the man. As a woman, do not use the bedroom to pressurize.
In the days of our forefathers, those who had polygamous homes, you know the bedroom was the only place a wife could get the full attention of the husband, she will make herself very attractive, serve the best meal, and that is why
they don’t miss that day.
Even if she is ill, she will make sure that she is presentable for that day. She is going to spend the night with her husband, because after that, it might be another two or three month before it gets back to her. And they know that they do not nag.
As women, learn to appreciate your husband in bed with romantic talks, things that will make him swell with pride to show you are proud of him.
Adventure
Men love women who are a bit adventurous, women who are ready to try out new things not necessarily weird things; But are ready to try out new S3@.Xx:’ positions in bed. Women who are ready to initiate S3@.Xx:’, or who are ready to play S3@.Xx:’y games in bed. Women who just come up with ideas that can make the bedroom more impressive for everybody.
New S3@.Xx:’ual position
Having a change of S3@.Xx:’ual routine can be quite interesting with men. They love their women to try out new S3@.Xx:’ positions, not leaving out the old style. Men fantasize about having S3@.Xx:’ in different places. While he is used to the usual routine, he sometimes wants to do something different. Trying new S3@.Xx:’ positions apart from the bedroom
can be fun for men.
Therefore, you can take it on from the sitting room and head straight to the bedroom. You can straddle him on the couch as well, when you two are left alone. It is important to know that, it should not be at the same place, same time of the night and same S3@.Xx:’ position. Men may not make an active move to change things, but they have the power to switch up patterns and take control.
Find out his fantasies
You can really satisfy your man in bed in a way that no woman can do. The secret is finding out his fantasies and exploring them with him. Men can share their fantasies with women who are ready to listen to them and not judge them. When you find out about his fantasies, then as a woman you start to explore them with him. In doing this, you
will know more of his fantasies.
However, you don’t have to do all these fantasies with him as you can only do some. When you know all this and follow through with him, your man will really be grateful and appreciative.
S3@.Xx:’ual attitude
Learning what men really want from women in bed is easy only if you have the right attitude by showing him you are excited to sleep with him. Your attitude is how you approach S3@.Xx:’ with your man. Do not approach S3@.Xx:’ with him as if it is a chore that you cannot wait to get over with. But trying new positions, tips, tactics and techniques in bed with your man, goes a long way in keeping your man by your side.
The key to the right S3@.Xx:’ual attitude is showing your man that you are willing to try new things that will keep your S3@.Xx:’ life interesting.
Talk dirty
Talking dirty to a man can sometimes sound weird to some “good ladies” who are afraid of the exploring their S3@.Xx:’ual fantasies with their man.
Men want to know when you are enjoying yourself. That doesn’t mean you need to talk dirty but make him understand that you like what he is doing. Some women prefer not to talk dirty so as not to be seen as a whore does.
The interesting thing is that sometimes these dirty talks will leave your partner speechless and therefore boost your
S3@.Xx:’ual confidence. This is the big picture of what men really want from their women in bed. We also have a lot of smaller picture like romance, S3@.Xx:’ual confidence, control and so on.
These are the big ones and any woman that can do these things for her man will definitely keep him in her bed.
What men really want in bed? The first thing that comes to mind is S3@.Xx:’; yes, we know men love S3@.Xx:’ and want it all the time. But when it comes to what they want in bed from their women it goes beyond just having S3@.Xx:’.
For men, what they see is almost as good as, what they want and get. As a woman, you need to know what your man really want from you in bed.
Some women don’t know how to have amazing S3@.Xx:’ but asking your
man to help you understand what arouses him could be helpful. Various
S3@.Xx:’ techniques are important but they don’t mean much without a
deep understanding of what makes your man turned on.There are different strokes for different men, some have a particular preference while others don’t. Whichever way, the onus is on you as a woman to discover his deepest fantasies and explore it with him.
A S3@.Xx:’ Therapist Dr. Taiwo Fadeyi, speaks with NAIJ.com’s Esther Odili on the basic things men really want from their women in bed.
Check them out:
S3@.Xx:’
What men really want from women in bed is S3@.Xx:’; not just S3@.Xx:’, they want their women to be capable of initiating S3@.Xx:’ sometimes. Apart from initiating S3@.Xx:’, there should be some kind of participatory S3@.Xx:’. They just don’t want their woman to lie down like a piece of log of wood. In other words, both husband and wife should do this.
Cuddling
When you are in bed, its not every time that you want to have S3@.Xx:’. So the man should not be at one end of the bed and the woman at the other end of the bed. In fact that is why I advocate that couples should not use the big sized bed, because when couples are using big sized beds, it does not allow for smooth relationship, because even when they fight, they don’t touch each other and this is not good for the bedroom.
Look attractive
The man would also want the woman to look even in bed. Not when you are going to bed, you put on your worst night gown or your hair-do is bad, or having all sorts of facial cream all over your body because when you have all that, you are sending a message; ‘don’t touch’ and this means you are giving orders.
Also when a woman is not attractive in bed, the man loses interest. Keep some clothes on. S3@.Xx:’y lingerie can be as arousing or more so being nude. With it you will be able to pull a move so wild he wont be able to stop talking about it the next day.
Have a particular technique that is really hot and different. You can try out his shirt alone without anything on, this
experience will ring a bell always in his mind. So that means you should always make sure that when you are going to bed, you just need to look attractive as much as possible.
Communication
Communication is also something that is important. When you talk of communication in bed, it means there should be light talk. The bedroom should not be an arena to start fighting or nagging, or talking about finance and school fees. All this add pressure to the man. As a woman, do not use the bedroom to pressurize.
In the days of our forefathers, those who had polygamous homes, you know the bedroom was the only place a wife could get the full attention of the husband, she will make herself very attractive, serve the best meal, and that is why
they don’t miss that day.
Even if she is ill, she will make sure that she is presentable for that day. She is going to spend the night with her husband, because after that, it might be another two or three month before it gets back to her. And they know that they do not nag.
As women, learn to appreciate your husband in bed with romantic talks, things that will make him swell with pride to show you are proud of him.
Adventure
Men love women who are a bit adventurous, women who are ready to try out new things not necessarily weird things; But are ready to try out new S3@.Xx:’ positions in bed. Women who are ready to initiate S3@.Xx:’, or who are ready to play S3@.Xx:’y games in bed. Women who just come up with ideas that can make the bedroom more impressive for everybody.
New S3@.Xx:’ual position
Having a change of S3@.Xx:’ual routine can be quite interesting with men. They love their women to try out new S3@.Xx:’ positions, not leaving out the old style. Men fantasize about having S3@.Xx:’ in different places. While he is used to the usual routine, he sometimes wants to do something different. Trying new S3@.Xx:’ positions apart from the bedroom
can be fun for men.
Therefore, you can take it on from the sitting room and head straight to the bedroom. You can straddle him on the couch as well, when you two are left alone. It is important to know that, it should not be at the same place, same time of the night and same S3@.Xx:’ position. Men may not make an active move to change things, but they have the power to switch up patterns and take control.
Find out his fantasies
You can really satisfy your man in bed in a way that no woman can do. The secret is finding out his fantasies and exploring them with him. Men can share their fantasies with women who are ready to listen to them and not judge them. When you find out about his fantasies, then as a woman you start to explore them with him. In doing this, you
will know more of his fantasies.
However, you don’t have to do all these fantasies with him as you can only do some. When you know all this and follow through with him, your man will really be grateful and appreciative.
S3@.Xx:’ual attitude
Learning what men really want from women in bed is easy only if you have the right attitude by showing him you are excited to sleep with him. Your attitude is how you approach S3@.Xx:’ with your man. Do not approach S3@.Xx:’ with him as if it is a chore that you cannot wait to get over with. But trying new positions, tips, tactics and techniques in bed with your man, goes a long way in keeping your man by your side.
The key to the right S3@.Xx:’ual attitude is showing your man that you are willing to try new things that will keep your S3@.Xx:’ life interesting.
Talk dirty
Talking dirty to a man can sometimes sound weird to some “good ladies” who are afraid of the exploring their S3@.Xx:’ual fantasies with their man.
Men want to know when you are enjoying yourself. That doesn’t mean you need to talk dirty but make him understand that you like what he is doing. Some women prefer not to talk dirty so as not to be seen as a whore does.
The interesting thing is that sometimes these dirty talks will leave your partner speechless and therefore boost your
S3@.Xx:’ual confidence. This is the big picture of what men really want from their women in bed. We also have a lot of smaller picture like romance, S3@.Xx:’ual confidence, control and so on.
These are the big ones and any woman that can do these things for her man will definitely keep him in her bed.
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